We are both in our 30s, and I think once you reach a certain age, you know what you want and you know what you need and when you find it, you hold on tight." Nine months: "I remember thinking at three months that I would totally marry him right now.But then we got to know each other even more, we got into some necessary arguments, and our love grew even stronger.
But I would like to have more sex."Relationship length: four years Sex frequency: twice per week“I love my partner. Really puts a damper on late-night sextravaganzas.”Relationship length: six months Sex frequency: once per week“When my boyfriend and I first met, we were both living at home, so sex was improbable, though not impossible.I feel 100% comfortable during sex because we know each other so well. But, we are both so tired after work, it just mutually never happens.”Relationship length: a year and three months Sex frequency: twice per week“I love that we're really comfortable with each other and with initiating sex, but I wish we had sex more often and prioritized it over lounging around and working when we're home.”Relationship length: 10 years Sex frequency: twice per week“I love that we've spent 10 years basically learning to have the best sex either of us has ever had. We found a few workarounds and eventually landed on a once-a-week pattern.Now, we're both independent, but we've stuck to that schedule mostly out of habit. We spend all week teasing each other about the next time we'll be together. In the morning when I arrived at my bank job, I would call him right away. to 6 p.m., and our conversations were a welcome respite from my monotonous routine. I'm not looking for a relationship; I was just trying to have some e-mail fun.""E-mail fun? But his e-mail felt emotionally honest, and despite his obvious issues, I liked him. Within weeks, we were talking every day; that quickly developed into an obsessive six to eight hours a day.