Any single woman can meet great guys online, but you do have to be disciplined, screen carefully, and always choose quality over quantity. Rule 1: Lower your expectations (but not your standards).
Growing up, we weren’t taught who men really are and what makes them tick.
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This is the kind of negative spiral my guidelines are designed to protect you against.
While you can’t control for chemistry or a soulmate-level connection, there are effective ways to screen out duds, scammers, and guys who just aren't that into you.
Once those worries are out of the way, you can actually relax and have fun.
These rules apply to any form of blind date, including those arranged by matchmakers or friends and family. When you have bad DZs, you want to give up on dating entirely; your self-esteem takes a hit and you start to feel that you will never meet the right guy.
You may even avoid singles events and other real-life opportunities to meet men because you feel so vulnerable and unsure of yourself.