was recently told after meeting someone online and going on just one short date they DIDNT FEEL the chemistry..despite stressing that i was good looking funny and that we could talk for hours and really enjoyed our conversations...The Chemistry Illusion We women try to take this feeling we call chemistry — even if it's chemistry with a man who isn't good for us — and we interpret it as a sign that we have met someone special.
But, as a researcher, I looked through property records etc. Most of his emails were about what he wanted in a woman, what love meant to him, etc. Stay beautiful ladies and avoid the southern charmer structural engineer guy. Because of you, I was able to prevent a scammer from defrauding me and dodged a major bullet.What's more, if you do have strong chemical feelings for a guy right away, that is an instant sign that something is wrong.You're attaching a lot of meaning to very little substance and creating a fantasy.Of course, it’s still a wonderful feeling, but life experience and science have taught us a few things about chemistry. Usually, chemistry lasts from 1 ½ to 3 years before it wears off. At this point, many women become disillusioned with their partners, even though all it means is that you’re finally seeing him clearly. When you’re under the influence of chemistry, you are under the influence of hormones that act like drugs.Can’t eat, can’t sleep, high highs, low lows, the feeling of obsessive longing…it’s all quite unhealthy.