Parenting my borderline daughter with is a twenty-four-hour-a-day job.She comes in my bedroom at midnight, crying and bleeding from self-inflicted cuts.Irritability and inappropriate anger with temper tantrums may occur. While love addiction is not medically diagnosable, addictive behavior is difficult to live with. They are unable to see the faults of their partner, and cannot tolerate changes in intimacy.Because their partner will eventually disappoint them, the person with BPD must reconcile their black and white conceptualization.You can have that relationship it will just take a lot of work and commitment on your part by recognising triggers and putting yourself in other people’s shoes.
This is often marked by sudden shifts, sometimes to the extent that they feel nonexistent. Thus, they’re dependent on others and may frequently seek advice from several people about the same question on the same day.So it is not easy having a personality disorder, and I hope you can see why these behaviours can stop you from dating. We all have issues that we need to work continuously on.Having BPD doesn’t mean that you don’t deserve to be in a loving and committed relationship.Researchers have found that BPD symptoms and diagnosis successfully predict dating satisfaction and stress, adolescents’ conflict with romantic partners, domestic violence, and separation and divorce.Typically individuals with BPD have difficulty trusting others.